Woman Frenzy

I had a patient come in today for her 1 month contacts her 1-pound-a-day weight loss plans. She lost 20 pounds in 20 days! Then gained 12 pounds back in 10 days.

What happened?

She explains, “Well my mom came over and cooked for me for a week as she usually does on vacation. Then there was this birthday party and I couldn’t resist the food.”

To start with, Mom would likely understand if you told her why you were losing weight. When you weigh 251 pounds and have to a quire down to 130 to get at ideal body weight, I hope your individual mother would understand if you told her you were on this revolutionary new diet that your doctor put you on for 1 pound a day weight loss and you were limited to 5 bites of whatever she prepared. Secondly, there are going to be parties, Fourths of July, Halloweens, and Birthdays. You name the month; there are 1-5 celebrations you could name coming up. You will need to continue with strict dieting habits during those times too.

The most disappointing thing to her was she lost 20 pounds and gained it back. But when I asked her to explain any reasons why she may have sabotaged her own success she said, “It’s because nobody noticed.”

That is an explanation I’ve heard from the multitude of disappointed patients I’ve had that lost weight successfully, either through my rapid weight loss hypnosis plan or through surgical bypass or lap bands. The people excess weight, but suddenly people aren’t treating them any differently or even noticing. 20 pounds of weight loss and not even one compliment can make lots of people quit. I had one client say, “I lost 200 pounds and I haven’t had a date yet;” and another that said, “I lost all this weight and my husband still hasn’t had sex with me;” and another who said, “After losing 150 pounds you’d think my boss would give me a raise.”

Most of these clients lost weight and were successful and should be proud. But they weren’t satisfied internally with themselves! It’s like hitting a grand slam home run to win the World Series, but being disappointed because it went to left field instead of where you wanted it to go, right field. When you define success incorrectly, you will think you have failed in case you have really succeeded! These people based their success on if another person acted a certain way INSTEAD OF THEIR Weight loss success. HEALTHIER BODY AND SUCCESS IN ACCOMPLISHING A GOAL! Another person or lot of people was defined as the source of approval or disapproval in defining their success.

But here’s what should be said more importantly. You have to be the source of your family satisfaction and compliments. You do this for YOURSELF. You aren’t LOSING WEIGHT FOR ANYONE ELSE BUT YOURSELF. Not your boyfriend or girlfriend, not your spouse, not your kids, not your dog, not the junior woman’s league, the boss, etc. THIS WEIGHT LOSS IS FOR only you ALONE. And when you succeed, you ought to be satisfied by yourself and for yourself!

Video clips a “Re-frame” in Neurolinguistic programming (NLP), a procedure for changing your view on the planet when your view is skewed. Should you be the kind of person that depends on other people’s opinions to form your own opinion of yourself, you may well be putting too much value on people who don’t deserve it. The most valuable opinion about your self is YOUR OWN.

What happens when we rely on others’ opinions to boost ourselves up? Many times we don’t get anything back as this client noticed. Sometimes we pick the wrong people. And sometimes those people’s opinions aren’t worth a crap. When we value other people’s opinions higher than our own, we put them above and ahead of ourselves on a pedestal to find information about too. When this client lost 20 pounds, she should have stepped up on that pedestal herself and smiled! Instead she was waiting for others to achieve that for her. A bad compass or frame because, as we know, some people are more geared for knocking you off that pedestal, whatever success you’ve had.

In weight loss practice, a good assistant/physician/hypnotherapy can be sure that they are there to coach you through these incorrect frames that sabotage your weight loss completely! Hypnosis, NLP, EFT is all tools that I use to accomplish this and can assist you eliminate your brain’s subconscious barriers to success. Sometimes it’s as simples as patting yourself on the back rather than waiting for someone to beat you in the head with a bat.

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