Woman Frenzy

Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!

Dale Carnegie in his timeless bestselling book, “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

You’ve probably been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the talking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to final base, saving a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.

If you’re a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?

6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?

8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?

8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?

11. What’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal!

15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you off the most sexually?

19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?

20. Have you ever been caught masturbating? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?

If you would like to read more fun questions that you can ask different guys then visit 21 questions to ask a guy today.